People that calm you and bring you a sense of security- that will be stronger than any dose of medication that can be prescribed. There isn't rhyme or reason involved in an anxiety disorder. You're used to waking up before your alarm. You need patience you don't have. We overthink everything. It's one of the nicest things about them, they never take you for granted. Please do not pressure her into seeing you, please do not get annoyed if she cancels or bails last minute or says no to plans. Know that anxiety affects relationships in a unique way.